Category: Adult

The two selves dilemma

When it comes to life, it is inevitable not to ask certain questions to oneself. We’ve all done it at some point, right? Many of them are based on curiosity, wanting to know about the meaning of our existence in this world, to discover our own identity, our purpose, and the role we play in

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What about XXL stories?

Veronica Roth: “if there’s no conflict, there are no stories worth telling.”   Before I tell you if I agree or disagree with the quote by this American author, I asked myself these four questions: What is the difference between a story with conflict and one without? What is a story? Who determines the value

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“Who Are You?” Asks Your Inner Child

Do you remember being a child? That big imagination that you had; when the world was as big as your backyard; when the world was as adventurous as you wanted it to be. You dreamed of being royalty, a superhero, or even a dentist. …Not just any dentist, but like, a vampire-killing dentist. A child

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And That’s the Problem I Have with History

Sunita, having been summoned by an upset sounding Lauren, hurries off, leaving the glass of water she was drinking precariously perched atop a filing cabinet. A bored Jack eyes the glass, and nodding, proclaims that it is half full. Georgia, sitting at the table across from him, looks up from her computer monitor and shakes

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Being

This movement we call ‘living’ is not about becoming anything; I say this with fervour and passion because ‘becoming’ implies moving towards something in an imaginary future. We say to ourselves, ‘I need to become a doctor or a lawyer, or I need to be successful and rich’. Obviously then, becoming something, or someone, else

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Do It Your Way

The quote that Henry Ford said is super important and will always be relevant in anything you are trying to accomplish. In this world today, if you keep asking everybody for an opinion on something, you may never get the solution you are looking for. That is the main point. Most times, your vision is

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From the Universe to Ourselves

“I don’t feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning.” – Michel Foucault. Discuss. Foucault’s academic title was Professor of the History of Systems of Thought. He was interested, principally, in “Man as

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A Midwest View

“I don’t feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning.” – Michel Foucault. As I approach my daunting thirties, I find myself frequently reflecting on my life, as well as what different lives

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Breeding Hate

‘Hate breeds hate’ is a line from a film about hate, about rage, about division. Though it was released in 1995, it remains relevant today. We live in a time of division. The global economic crash of 2008 exposed fault lines in our economic systems that had been ignored for decades. The American election in

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The Conflicts of Our Lives

Every writer knows that a good story requires colourful characters and conditions where they can express themselves. An interesting plot is unconceivable without a conflict. It does not matter whether it is a quarrel between two persons, a confrontation between different groups or a mental fight. From fairy tales to social novels, from plays to

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The Meaning of Perfection

“Our life dreams the Utopia. Our death achieves the Ideal.’’ – Victor Hugo “Utopia means elsewhere.’’ – John Malkovich From the moment we are conceived, our parents strive to build a perfect world for us: peaceful, full of happiness, free of worries and without wars and conflicts. They undoubtedly try their best, but do they

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A story that breathes

In the movie ‘Finding Nemo’, Dory, says to Marlin, concerning his son Nemo – “If nothing happens to him, nothing will ever happen to him.” I think this quote goes for all life. No life starts in a box, or under a bell jar, or behind steel bars. Life starts as a fight and enters

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The Omnipresence of Conflicts

“What has been your greatest conflict?” the interviewer asked. “My greatest conflict?” I blankly repeated back. “Yes, what has been a conflict that you have experienced in life and have overcome?” the interviewer repeated. “Umm, let me think…” I faltered. I could feel my face turning bright red and my hands becoming clammy with sweat.

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Worrisome Wonder

“He wanted to marry her, so he proposed. She said yes. Their families were happy. They had a great wedding and they lived happily ever after. The end.” “He wanted to marry her, so he proposed. She said yes. But their families hated each other. The families did not want them to get married to

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A Story without Conflict is like a Plant without Water: It is Necessary

One day after witnessing an argument between my mother and I, my grandmother asked to speak with me in the dining room. I could hear the urgency in her voice. I quickly followed her into the dining room and slowly pulled out a chair to sit down. My grandmother sat beside me at the table,

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How ‘Right’ is Michel Foucault?

This essay is a discussion on Michel Foucault’s statement “I don’t feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning”. I will also explore what might have been on his mind when he made

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From the writer’s perspective

Even though a good story is a gem, it should not gloss over the character’s struggles, pains, anger or regrets but it should rather try to find the warmth, humour and the human spirit of the people who are, too often, buried beneath the mountains of conflict. It is for this reason that this essay

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‘Become someone else that you were not in the beginning.’ – Foucault.

It’s necessary to know exactly what you are to avoid a misplaced priority from the beginning phase of your life. Literally, ‘necessary’ simply means needing to be done of present. When something is necessary it’s essential and not optional. Now let’s highlight a better opinion which I stand by that says, IT’S NECESSARY TO KNOW

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Educate against Morals

Ethics are dissolvent. Ethics are a danger for the perfect community. When a society is perfect, that is, when it satisfices with justice all the needs of its’ members, and at the same time it is a fair and supportive actor in the global community, all the intentions of questioning it to change it must

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