Transforming into a better version of me

Albert Einstein once said that “The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking”. When I read this quote, I realized that I was trapped in a circular loop neither pursuing meaningful goals nor creating any. I was constantly in a hurry to

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The Nature of Hate

Hate. Revulsion at an entity, from the very fibre of your being. Deep breaths. Rejection, from within the depths of your subconscious. Reconciliation seems to be an impossibility. Like matter with antimatter, the only solution would be annihilation, in the form of radical action. The initial impulse passes away. It settles into the depths of

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What Are Conflicts and Stories

The word ‘conflict’ often carries with it a negative connotation. In the modern lexicon, the word ‘conflict’ is synonymous with confrontation and violence, often involving some amounts of physical or vocal altercations between the two parties involved. I would argue, however, that conflict carries a second, more nuanced, meaning. The Latin word conflictus, meaning ‘contest’,

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Discord Is Not the Only Driving Force

Why is it that, all over the planet, the world-view of otherwise vastly diverse societies is grounded in conflict? Nearly every culture has their own lore about good and evil; a myth of origins in which a benevolent creator in some way gives birth to our Earth, which is then hijacked into a metaphysical darkness

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Does Hatred Have the Upper Hand?

Many years ago, I had what some might call a moment of enlightenment, in which I was briefly touched by what I can only call, for lack of better terminology, a feeling of universal love. For the first time, existence, both in general as well as mine in particular, appeared to be endowed with a

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He Never Knew Who He Was

“For the first time in my life – I was then eleven years old – I felt myself forced into open opposition. No matter how hard and determined my father might be about putting his own plans and opinions into action, his son was no less obstinate in refusing to accept ideas on which he

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Mapping Out the End Product: Ourselves

A blank slate: that’s what we start off as. We get to choose what, and whom, we want to be as the end product. If we do not take the butterfly’s example, sitting wrapped in our cocooned mistakes until we learn, what is the point of living? We each want to emerge as our best

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La Haine Attire La Haine

As a word, ‘hate’ is so overused that we almost forget what it means. Its constant repetition desensitizing us to its gravity…I hate the rain, carrots, my hair, myself. But the real feeling of hate when embedded in our core is highly corrosive. People talk in terms of being consumed by it. Apparently we have

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The Functions of Conflict in a Story

Writers employ various literary elements to achieve a desired or specific effect. A literary device can be defined as a technique or structure a writer uses to achieve a certain effect or purpose. Some of the literary devices are: flashback, foreshadow, irony, hyperbole, understatement, symbolism, imagery and so on. Conflict is one of the literary

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The Strongest Men on Earth

In one of his trendy quotes, Henry Ford said, “If you asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses.” It would be difficult for anyone to make a clear judgement of this statement without unravelling the initial context of its use. For instance, why would one of the world’s most influential innovators

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Expanding And Persuading The Mind

We have habits, we are scared of the unknown and these combine to make trying new things seem like a waste of time and also seem impossible.  When Samsung launched its S Series, I remember telling a former colleague of mine that I would never be able to use to a touch screen phone because

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Discovering “What I Am”

“I don’t feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning.” – Michel Foucault. Discuss What I am is a question we ask ourselves over and over again throughout life. The unknown of why

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Ford’s “faster horses” Reveal the Buying Psychology Secret

Apparently, the whole idea of turning a dream into reality is far from what a human being truly needs. Communities always wish for better dress and better food, larger houses and longer lives – not because the dresses they wear create discomfort, or the food they eat cause digestion problems, nor because the houses they

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Our True Selves

“I don’t feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning.” – Michel Foucault. Growth is vital within every stage of life and this universe. Amongst this inevitable expansion is inescapable ignorance and oblivion.

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The Burden Of Progress

One thing I have become painfully aware of in the past few years is that we as a society have become adept at spouting off platitudes that sound extremely profound. The most egregious of these are #notallmen in response to #menaretrash, and #alllivesmatter in response to #blacklivesmatter. I thought of these when I first read

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Conflict and Storytelling

Throughout history, humans have found a way to record their lives and adventures; whether it is in cave paintings, stories and myths passed down from generation to generation, or even the written word. As societies have continued to grow and evolve, the function of stories and storytelling has evolved with it. While some functions like

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Connection Needs To Be Remembered

Whenever I stand in the front of mirror, so many questions start appearing. I’ve almost solved every one, but two words leave me in a very difficult situation. Only these two words create puzzles. I have tried, but found that without solving them, I cannot proceed. If this was the case, then how could I

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Human Being, Human Becoming

“I don’t feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning.” – Michel Foucault How do we become who we are? And how do we become something else entirely without knowing who we were,

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Write me a story

‘Write me a story,’ she pleaded. I could see the enamoured and enthusiastic desperation behind her eyes, lit afire. She held me close, running those fairy-tale fingertips through my hair. Her familiar figure, like flames alight, sculpted mine simply by the way she perched herself upon my knees. As I studied her smile and kissed

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We cannot escape what we are; we should not have to

“I don’t feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning.” – Michel Foucault. In considering this quote from Michel Foucault, we might juxtapose it to the often expressed ‘you can make of yourself

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