Category: Adult

“La haine attire la haine” (Hate attracts hate)

In this particular era of our present existence, that is defined by breakthrough technology and the continuous rise of social media, sources in the form of journals, articles and news reports which originate from a particular region, are virtually accessible and reflective within milliseconds of them being published. Similarly, spoken words and actions enacted through

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In the Pursuit of Real or Perceived Excellence

Foucault’s quote about not needing to know exactly what one is and being in favour of becoming someone else one wasn’t in the beginning is something that I believe all humans are inherently born with, even if many of us may not agree with Foucault or believe as he does. For me, I have always

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Of Stories Worth Telling

Growing up as a child overdosed on Enid Blyton fiction, my greatest wish was to get kidnapped. In hindsight, heroically rescuing someone who got kidnapped would have been a better option, but hey, kids are weird! I guess what I really wanted was an action-filled challenge to spruce up the holidays, so I would have

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T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E.

The acronym THUGLIFE was created by Tupac back in the early 1990s to express that The Hate U Give Little Infants comes back on society in the worst way (to be a little less profane than he was). Meaning, when you portray hate to people, they raise their children to function in a society with

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Thoughts of a Utopian

It’s a bright Monday morning. The sun is shining. The birds are chirping. The best way to describe this morning is harmonious. Every morning is harmonious. Life, in general, is harmonious. From birth, I, like every other individual alive, always knew what to do. I always knew what the right path was for me and

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Golden Middle

“If there’s no conflict, there are no stories worth telling-or reading.”- Veronica Roth. It seems that human beings tend to hope and search for perfection, to look for the one key opening all the doors. However, life has many shades of grey. We, people, are intricate and interconnected. We all wish to create a perfect

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Telling Stories in Time of Conflict

We live in a time of conflict, but then, we have always lived in a time of conflict. Worldwide, there are 57 wars of conflicts currently happening, as of September 2019 (1). These range from wars between nations, and internal armed conflicts, to minor conflicts and clashes. Four wars in the past year have each

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Remembrance

I take my usual walk along the promenade, lasting approximately the same number of steps as usual, past the same houses, seawall, and sand. Yet, walking this familiar route is always a different experience. Today, it’s in greyscale, and the windows of limpet houses look out with seal eyes, reflecting back the shades of the

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Individuation and Self-refusal: the struggle for identity

The French philosopher Michel Foucault, after arguing his thesis statement during a seminar in 1982 on ‘Technologies of the Self’, stated that ‘the target nowadays is not to discover who we are, but to refuse what we are’. It can be deduced from this statement that knowing what you are is to form an identity

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The Conflict in Human Life

They say what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. And I ask, what are those things that can either kill you or make you stronger? Conflict can literally either get you beaten black and blue or let you walk away with the money in the bank as a champion like fighters in the WWE. These

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Born Into A World Of Conflict

“If there’s no conflict, there are no stories worth telling – or reading.” – Veronica Roth It is tough to challenge Ms. Roth’s views about stories without conflict and about them not being worth telling. Why? Authenticity. Stories without conflict become unrealistic and dull to the individual experience. Everyone faces some turmoil because the world

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Conflict Makes The Character

Humanity is defined by four unique traits: the ability to reason; innovation; the double face of kindness and cruelty; and the potential to adapt to, and overcome, conflict. The human body and mind are capable of surviving odds that seem insurmountable. They are designed to preserve the person possessing them in the most whole shape

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To Live Is To Change

The human race is obsessed with the grand search for “self.” They have this undeniable thirst to set a label on themselves that defines what they are, a need to place themselves into a neat box. Two issues present themselves in this matter. Firstly, the point of life is to grow not stagnate, and growth

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The Reason We Hate

If you throw a glass of water on to my face, it will trickle down my skin and burn in my veins which will prompt me to throw a glass of water on to your face. It’s just a simple mechanism. An eye for an eye. If someone were to charge at me with a

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“[…] The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning.” – Michel Foucault.

Many people around the world do not believe in themselves because of the shortcomings they have either biologically, physically, morally, or even spiritually. What they fail to know or understand is that everyone is well placed to become someone else that they were not in the beginning. All it calls for is a change in

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Who Am I?

I recently binge-watched a series on the popular online video platform, Netflix. It was a true story about a spy, who, after succeeding in his mission to extract important state secrets, had finally gotten caught. He’d lived under an assumed identify for years, staying away from his family and friends, and for a brief time

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Conflict: The Basis of a Story

Stories are a part of our daily lives. They are told to entertain, educate or inform. Stories can be told in different forms like; oral narration, writing, arts or films. Whichever form, a story should have a theme, conflict, and characters. This piece sets to highlight the various forms of stories and show that conflict

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Knowing Nothing, is Everything

Once upon a time, I wanted to know everything. The idea of who I am ate away at me like a stale fungus. I just had to know. Or so I thought. For many years, I struggled with identity. It’s so prevalent in our culture. The first thing we say in conversation is what do

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An Odysseus’ Journey

The all-inclusive blend of life means that it has both good and bad. For a dramatic touch, some might add the ugly too. From Homer’s “Odyssey” telling the tale of a warrior returning home, to Dickens’ “Oliver Twist”, a story of an orphan boy thrust through life’s woes, it is clear that we have always

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The Ugly Truth About How Hate Attracts Hate

Martin Luther King Jr. was once quoted as having said that, “Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.” In the French film La Haine (Hate), director Mathieu Kassovitz shows how hate towards a person or people based on their religion, status, and

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